Although I wasn’t ready to share this, but I thought sharing now could help at least someone.

Why I choose homeschooling my kids, the challenges and the sweetness.

I’m a born and bread village girl from Ila-Orangun, a small town in Osun State, nah marriage turned me to Lagos geh.

While I was younger, I hated school so much… Why? My mom put me in the most expensive school in town despite that we struggle to eat our 3 square meal.
Did I forget to mention that we have a college of Education in my town that my mom age mates used to go then?
My own primary school used to be a school for “Omo Lecturer”(Lecturers kids).

Now I used to go to school with amala plus ewedu plus ponmo , Eba plus alasepo or beans garnished with a tea spoon of palm oil, you cannot imagine how these food used to look, so I’d rather not eat while in school, go hungry and eat immediately I noticed my mates were out of class.

Sometimes when they don’t leave the class on time, I’d excuse myself leaving my food inside my well wrapped sack bag in a school where my mates carried posh bags.

I could remember a day they gathered up to open my bag behind me, it was beans I took on this day, they were all mocking , shouting “come and see faeces in her plate” .
I came in to the class and I was just crying.

My result dropped from 5th to the 35th position in that term.

No I wasn’t an olodo, I was just being affected by self esteem because that school wasn’t for my level, such that my class teacher, whose face I can’t recall advised my mom to change my school and after then I’d always been one of the best leading my class and I even sometimes get over marks like 30/20… Lol.

My hatred for school I could associate to the fact that I shrink always in the midst of my mates such that it affected my talking to my class mates in schools I attended afterwards…

During my year as an undergraduate Chemical Engineering student, there was a Christian classmate guy of mine that was homeschooled and his first time of writing an external exam was his GCE and Jamb that brought him into the prestigious OAU in a prestigious department.

I admire him so much because he’s so versed and could consume all our mathematical jargons within short time even without attending the class.

So I had a seed of homeschooling my kids in me and I used to research about it back then since I had my first baby in my IT year before resumption into part 5.

My first homeschooling experience was with my kid brother when we lost our mom and we couldn’t afford to pay his fees. He left his school while he was in primary 2 and spent a year with me before we could afford putting him in school, the school heads were actually dragging whether to put him in primary 5 or secondary after series of tests.

Now my moving to Lagos brought me straight to Lekki axis, if you live here or know someone here you’ll understand how expensive the schools here are.

Imagine #350k kids school that parents even grumble, a #100k school that you’ll wonder why the hell you put your kid there and a #50k school is like making the mistake of your life because this is the home where teachers are used up, a single teacher taking up to 6 subjects which in turn leads teachers to maltreating the kids.

As if this isn’t enough, little kids waking up by 5am just to be on the road(in their various school buses) to avoid holdup on our roads…

My first child was in a school I wasn’t so comfortable with and so I withdrew her and took up the challenge.

Now I came up with this, *”what is most important is educating your kids, it doesn’t have to be in four wall of a school. The people who started the system were themselves trained by their parents/ environment, buried themselves in Labs and libraries to create better tomorrow that we now dogmatically follow whether it pays us or not”*.

So I choose homeschooling even when so many thought I was mad and that’s not right here in Nigeria, I asked them who determined the right for my kids.

I switched when I feared people will know how financially broke I was but I still did anyway and when they asked if it’s because of money, I affirm.

It’s not easy to show your vulnerability sometimes but pretense drains out my blood and people soon get used to my honesty.

Ask me “how are you?” And I’ll tell you “I’m hungry” if that’s how I feel at the moment you asked even though I knew you weren’t ready for my kind of answer.

Today, some of them will bring their kids to me for schooling but hey, I don’t have the capacity for that because I’m a social entrepreneur too, a business creator but I’m homeschooling my kids because there’s joy in doing something for your ward and seeing results.

I have a family member who argued with me then about my decision, telling me now that “it’s not bad afterall, and that she thinks homeschooling is even better”
My reply: I don’t know which is better, I’m only following what I believe will be best for me and kids at the moment and I can switch over without seeking anyone’s consent too.

Mind you, if you’re already homeschooling or you intend to start it, don’t think you’ll excel in it by bombarding them with loads of textbook consuming it from pali to pali, let’s their brain breath by introducing play; both indoor and outdoor with neighbors, visit recreation centers when you can, teach them handiwork, work each child based on his/her ability and never compare.

Don’t forget the rule of leverage especially Other People’s Time and Other People’s Energy while homeschooling.
I can’t konfu so I’d rather get a martial art instructor to train them rather than breaking down my very own stainless hand. If you can’t swim, get a swimming instructor whenever you can afford and you can always trade these skills with whatever you’ve got in case you don’t have money, get teachers for other languages if you can’t do it and don’t ever forget IT for kids(this is not the starting point so don’t be afraid ?, it’s just what you need to bring in on the go whenever you can).

If you’re still wondering about the homeschooled children social life, then you probably don’t know about homeschooling cooperative…you can research that to enlighten yourself.

Please research about homeschooling and you’ll be glad even if you’re not going to eventually homeschool your wards.

Most importantly, pray before you decide, and pray always for success.

I’m not saying homeschooling is the best but it’s the best option for some people so that this will help them to prepare both financially and morally for when the kids schooling in four walls of school really matters. They’re still small and can be nurtured while investing/preparing what you’ve got into their future. When you run helter skelter now to get their school fees paid, what will you do when it gets more expensive and you don’t even have time to create your own wealth because you have to keep the job to be “secured”?.

Homeschooling can sometimes be demanding but not as you think, it gets really fun by the day and you get to learn an experience I can’t really explain, free from bondage and the dictates of society.

If you don’t underestimate yourself, if you don’t bother much about people’s dictates in your life, you’ll do it and succeed in it.

The decision I made back then, was what gave birth to starting an internet business and helping others to do same.

If I’d listened to the little voices that told be to live my life like everyone else, perhaps you won’t even know my name.

This post isn’t about comparing which is better between homeschooling and the conventional schooling, it’s about making a decision that works best for you, your kids and putting your best effort to make your decision right.

Thank you for the long read and I hope you pick one or two lessons here.

PS: we’re launching the number platform for the Nigerian homeschoolers to recieve maximum supports both in education and all extracurricular activities in due time, to me part of it…drop a comment first and then follow the linkΒ

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Comments 24

  1. anna
    June 8, 2017

    Wow wow!!!! Thank God I finally read this, cause when I bring up the matter about home schooling my kids my mum thinks it’s absurd, the school fees of most so called private school is so alarming you will be scared of having another child lol, thank God cause I needed enlightenment on the homeschooling idea but don’t know how to register the school so my kids can per take in external exams to go to a university or a curriculum to follow

    1. Kifayah Adeniyi-Omotosho Mompreneur
      June 17, 2017

      Hello Anna. Thank you for reading and for finding it beneficial.
      The platform we’re creating is to help us mitigate the so called problem of a typical homeschoolers including getting life skills and socialization per local government residence of the parent/child. Please feel free to fill the form here…

      You can copy and paste the above link to your browser.

      Thank you.

  2. Ruqayyah
    July 13, 2017

    Assalaamu ‘alaykum warahmatullaahi wabaarakatuh ukhti. Baarakallaahu fiiki. How do you source for materials, textbooks and all the necessary teaching aids?

  3. Kudirat
    December 14, 2017

    i am a teacher
    i will really love to home teach my daughter because she does not fit into conventional classroom. I need tips and loads of encouragement. how do you source for appropriate materials?

    thanks for this write up

    1. The Legit-Way-Out Money,Business and Lifestyle
      January 1, 2018

      Hello queen. Please visit for further info

  4. Aminat Owolabi
    February 23, 2018

    Thank you Momp. Though I have no kids yet but I have been craving for homeschooling even before I got married. I would like to be part of the project. I need to learn more about homeschooling before my lil buddies start coming…..

  5. Monsurat Owokoniran
    February 24, 2018

    Alhamdulilaah, I can see like mind. I am currently homeschooling my girl and plan to do that for all of them in shaa Allah.

    There are challenges like,is she really learning something.With the use of guide and evaluation . I am enjoying the experience.

  6. Earl Okezie
    April 18, 2018

    This is very encouraging and enlightening. For quite I’ve been considering homeschooling my and didn’t know how to start. I will keep in touch. Thanks.

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  7. Maimuna Tijjani
    May 26, 2018

    Boy am I glad stumbled on this I’ve been thinking about this issue for years now my kids are unique and learn in a different manner and so have difficulty learning within the four walls of a classroom.This is very encouraging and has given me a lot of hope.

  8. Omoefe efetobore
    July 15, 2018

    Praise God I found this blog. God bless you. I have started thinking I was the only one and so frustrated by all society of now has to say. My husband the most scared by what people say n has never seen anyone here in Nigeria supporting home schooling. I am housewife doing a little trade. Hope to home school cos I don’t understand what the schools are doing now. I end up teaching my kids after paying school fees n lesson fees not to talk of many other payments. I feel extorted so y not just take up the job n save. I am just a mum of 4 with a bachelor’s degree in biochemistry. I would really love to b guided as I hope to begin this coming session. Thanks

    1. The Legit-Way-Out Money,Business and Lifestyle
      July 17, 2018

      Thank you so much for your feedback and kind word.

      You see, as much as it seems easy to decide on pulling off our wards from school, we usually appreciate that each parent should take our simple PARENT-KIDS PERSONAL AND LOCATIONAL ANALYSIS so that we can know if ourselves or our ward will cope better with homeschooling, the different kinds of homeschooling options, plus pointers into how you’ll get support in case you decide homeschooling.

  9. Omoefe efetobore
    July 15, 2018

    Is there a curriculum to follow. I would really like to phase out those unnecessary subjects that have been added by these private schools that make the work load kind of too much for the kids n me….. How do I get materials n how do I teach all 4 kids of different age groups all by myself. I need ur help

    1. The Legit-Way-Out Money,Business and Lifestyle
      July 17, 2018

      There’s a way we get curriculum for our wards and there’s a way to cope especially when they are more than two.

      Please read through our homeschooling blog to learn one or two things.

  10. Ese Walter
    July 25, 2018

    I am so happy I found you and your blog. This is all the confirmation and support I need to assert my decision to homeschool my children. Phew. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I cannot even thank you enough. Saving this page and…oh my god! In Nigeria? yes! LOL. THANK YOU AGAIN

    1. The Legit-Way-Out Money,Business and Lifestyle
      July 25, 2018

      Hahaha… I thank God it really helps.

      Check out my homeschooling blog to get my other tips on homeschooling via

  11. Roselyn E. Jeremiah
    July 26, 2018

    Thanks so much for sharing this awesome perspective of homeschooling.
    I really do love to homeschool my daughter but haven’t found a way to until I read this.

  12. Dr. Ice
    May 13, 2019

    Good afternoon. Thanks for this piece. So I just started doing my research on home schooling. I currently hv a 5month old but thinking ahead I would love him to be home-schooled at least for his foundation years. The stories of negative social exposure children get these days when they leave the home(though sometimes the negative exposure starts from the home) makes my ears cringe.
    So thanks again for this piece as I continue on my way to get more insight on the issue of home schooling.

  13. Mrs Aj
    May 15, 2019

    Ah! I thought I am the only one affected
    by horrid schools. Thanks a mil. My kids school is corrupting them. And when I complain, they give me that look and take it out on the children. I need ur help to start home schooling them. But I intend to pay teachers. What do you think?

  14. Chalfe
    May 27, 2019

    Nice. Iv started homeschooling my kids. People thought I was going crazy pulling them out of regular school.πŸ˜ƒ. I’m glad I did. They are doing very well. I have included gymnastics, swimming and music lessons. Thanks so much for this. Makes me feel equipped.

  15. Stacy Champagnie
    June 19, 2019

    The most High bless you sis I live in Jamaica πŸ‡―πŸ‡² now and I’m planning on moving to Nigeria πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬ soon because I’m getting married and I have three children that I homeschool and this article really help me out on what to do once I’m there so I can keep on homeschooling them and get them prepared for university πŸŽ“.

  16. Olaitan
    July 25, 2019

    Just reading this in 2019!

    I can’t seem to assess the link.

  17. Aniuvi Junaid
    August 16, 2019

    I am so happy I found you. My mood right now: You are God sent!
    With the way bills creep in by the seconds,I have been considering home schooling my children.A good school around me here costs so much that I am thinking of discontinuing make pocket no go
    How do you source materials though?

  18. Nolly Obi
    September 15, 2019

    This is amazing! I recently had to start homeschooling my twins boys of age 5 and their little brother of age 3 cause of the school fees in lekki. Am a stay at home mother of four boys struggling to start my catering business and its not been easy, especially as am not financially stable. Am glad that mothers can see reasons to home schooling. I would like to know if there is a curriculum i can follow to help teach my sons? Would also be glad if you can whatsapp me or call me on 08130276068 to give me more tips to help my kids. Thank you

  19. Nicole
    November 22, 2019

    I’m planning on moving to Nigeria and was thinking of homeschooling the kids. Thanks for sharing this. I am only concerned with the social aspect, and I noticed that you mentioned “homeschool cooperative” which one do you belong to? Also, what about sports teams for the older kids?

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